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let me hear your voice tonight ([personal profile] alexseanchai) wrote2016-07-29 05:17 pm
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Ask me anything!

Hekatombaion 26

I am trying to work less hard, in order to save my hands. (Manager is okay with this, but I apologized anyway.) However, I can't seem to work less fast. Therefore! To distract me from work!

(Tablet typing is not a problem like keyboard typing is a problem, I think. Different hand motions.)

Ask me anything! I can't think offhand of any topics I'm placing off limits, but if you hit one I'll decline to answer in full or at all as appropriate.

Hit me! :)
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[personal profile] alatefeline 2016-07-29 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
(Recent conversation starters used with kiddos at school)

What is one animal you think is cool - that would make a very bad pet? Why?

Have you ever ridden a horse? If so, when, where, and what color was it?

Pretend you are a fruit farmer. You grow a fruit/vegetable beginning with the same letter as one of your names or nicknames (or handles). What is it?

If two stuffed animals living with the same person are having a lot of arguments, what advice would you give them on learning to get along?
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[personal profile] alatefeline 2016-07-29 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
>> I would say wolf, except evidence suggests I'd be wrong (see: dogs exist) <<

Yup.

>> Hee hee heee. Uh. They both--both; this doesn't work if only one does it--need to think about what the other one is feeling, and why they're feeling that way, and what they personally could do (as well as what they want each other to do) to resolve the issue. <<

I was gonna cut circle time short so we could catch up on math, but this share was too good and we had to talk about conflicts and feelings. The kids came up with: be on opposite sides of the bed (respect each other's space); do different things; play a game together so they can get along; apologize to each other; let each other know they'd be willing to apologize. I suggested that it's not easy when you fight with friends/family, but sometimes you need to think about what the other person needs instead of about winning. The kid who brought her conflicted stuffies to share insisted they'd fight, but she didn't seem happy about it. Poor kiddo. At least she's got friends in her class.
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[personal profile] alatefeline 2016-07-30 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. I'm drawing a line on discussing any more personal details for this student, but yes.

And many of my other kiddos too. *frustration* Can we make human society NOT SUCK PLEASE? kthxbai...

A further ask, if you feel like it: What interpersonal drama or inner conflict (your own or someone else's) would YOU stage with stuffed animals?

To answer my own question: Teddy Bear Pride Parade. So as to make LOTS of identities visible.
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[personal profile] alatefeline 2016-08-02 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
It WILL happen. Eventually. When I have more teddy bears. Because my job clearly calls for a good stuffed animal collection.
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[personal profile] misbegotten 2016-07-29 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you think people's personalities can change?
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[personal profile] alatefeline 2016-07-29 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Huh...Gotta be clear on what you mean by "person" and "personality" to answer this.

I once asked the question, "Do you think someone can change so much that they are no longer the same person?" One of my college friends insisted for the longest time that "a person is the sum of ALL their experiences." Which is useful, but doesn't account for multiplicity or certain types of drastic change. My rule of thumb is, if you think it's the same person and they say they aren't, believe them. They might be a walk-in, or a twin, or you (okay, me) might just be THAT bad at names and faces.

Also, I bet NOBODY has the exact same pattern of reactions as when they were a toddler ... but certain broad definitions of personality or temperament (anxious, mellow, etc) might still apply. Or might not.

It's worth thinking about.
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[personal profile] redbird 2016-07-29 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
How do you feel about tomatoes?
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[personal profile] alatefeline 2016-07-30 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
:)
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[personal profile] silveradept 2016-07-30 02:34 pm (UTC)(link)
What do you think of the increasing number of automata in workplaces and lives?
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[personal profile] silveradept 2016-07-30 05:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Fair enough. What does that do to us when the Singularity arrives?