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let me hear your voice tonight ([personal profile] alexseanchai) wrote2015-04-12 01:51 pm

I am my mother's child

Somebody tell me to get rid of the damn Greenpeace sticker. I don't want it, I'm never going to use it, I didn't want it in the first place (I think I acquired it via one of my actual charities selling my info), I especially don't want it after the Nazca Lines jackassery, it isn't worth the postage to give it away ('cause let me assure you no one else in this house wants it either, though for different reasons). But I cannot bring myself to actually trash the thing.

There is a lot of crap I own that I neither need nor want but cannot convince myself to get rid of.

And yes, I know, [community profile] unclutter. Also [community profile] bitesizedcleaning and [tumblr.com profile] unfuckyourhabitat. Also the KonMari system—I finally broke down and bought a Kindle copy of The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up and am 24% in. (On a related note: I keep spending money I do not really have. Which is part of why the clutter problem! ...and yes, [community profile] actyourwage.)

And I keep telling myself I'll do better in my own apartment, but who do you think you're kidding, Alex. This corner of the basement is essentially all mine (if only because no one else wants to deal with my crap), my bedroom is definitely all mine (since the sister who used to share it with me is the one who moved in with her fiancé), and I have no one else to blame for the state they're in. If I can't handle keeping these two areas clean now, that bodes ill for my being able to keep an entire apartment clean later.

Seriously, somebody tell me to get rid of the Greenpeace sticker. I will probably whine at you about how I don't waaaaant to, but I keep hearing that being an adult is doing the thing while muttering "I don't wanna"...
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[personal profile] the_rck 2015-04-12 06:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Get rid of the Greenpeace sticker. You don't want it. No one you know wants it, and it's not valuable enough to sell or to be worth donating.
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[personal profile] the_rck 2015-04-12 06:30 pm (UTC)(link)
You can do it! ::gets out the pompoms::

But, yes, hard.
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[personal profile] the_rck 2015-04-12 08:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Yea! Go, you!
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[personal profile] kaberett 2015-04-12 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
1. Get rid of it. You are allowed to be ruthless. If you have a nearby charity shop, it is 100% legit to put together a For The Charity Shop bag (I'm not sure if they're really a thing the US does?)

2. That thing you say? About "if only because no one else wants to deal with my crap"? Yeah, the reason my room was an utter tip through my childhood and most of undergrad, and suddenly my home (shared with Awesome Housemate) is approximately clean and tidy except for health-related lapses that get sorted relatively quickly? It is because the mess was insulation and armour. It was a way to keep people the fuck AWAY from me. And that's... a thing.
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[personal profile] the_rck 2015-04-12 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)
We're lucky where I live-- We have several options as to places to donate. Our first choice is usually the the PTO Thrift Shop because sales there go to support things in the public schools (they paid for some extra buses last year, for example, so that kids doing after school activities in middle school and high school could still get home).
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[personal profile] aldersprig 2015-04-12 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure about your area, but within my area/my mother's, we also have a VOA, a Salvation Army (different issues with that one), and (I kid you not) a Rescue Mission Thrifty Shopper, a name so ridiculous I half expect someone to say "Shop Smart, shop S-Mart" while I'm in there.
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[personal profile] aldersprig 2015-04-12 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
...and churches with charity boxes, I forgot those.
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[personal profile] kaberett 2015-04-12 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
WELL DONE.
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Greenpeace sticker

[personal profile] dialecticdreamer 2015-04-12 08:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Think of it this way, you have just deprived Greenpeace of TWO resources they could MISUSE.

That Nazca Lines DEBACLE (and there aren't enough Shouty!Caps in the /world/ for that phrase) deserves a little karma in return, right?

Good on you for treating their symbol with more respect than they gave one of the most fragile ecosystems in the world and DONATING the stickers. ME, I would've stuck 'em onto a sheet of toilet paper, then shredded same with scissors and happily dumped the confetti into my NOT-recycling trash. Because, you know, ticked off due to damage to Nazca Plains!
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[personal profile] onyxlynx 2015-04-12 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you patronize a library?

Because what you do with a sticker, particularly if the sticky part is still covered or not sticky or otherwise damaging, is you fold it and use it as a bookmark. And then you leave it in the book (preferably out of sight) when you return it. And then (and this is important) you don't ask about it.

I'm fairly certain that libraries find bookmarks all the time and unless they're legal papers or money they just get tossed.

And you don't have to do it. And if you deeply regret it, you can always disregard that last step.
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[personal profile] onyxlynx 2015-04-13 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
You're welcome!
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[personal profile] finch 2015-04-13 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
Go you for getting rid of it!

IMO the most useful part of that book was the ending, but I'm looking forward to hearing what you think about it.
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[personal profile] rmc28 2015-04-13 09:26 am (UTC)(link)
I cleared a load of accumulated mess off the shelves in my child's old room over the last few weeks (in order to move books onto them, and free up space in my room).

I am allowed to bin the cheap plastic tacky toys they haven't even noticed were lost. And the broken paper+card flippy-cube-thingy. And I can recycle their drawings from 3 years ago because I don't need to keep everything they ever made (just a representative sample!)
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[personal profile] silveradept 2015-04-13 02:53 pm (UTC)(link)
You may do better in your own apartment, because all things will have their place to be and you can impose the system that works best for you without others interfering or taking up space.

Good that the stickers are gone as a first step.