Me-and-media update
Dec. 3rd, 2025 03:32 pmIn the Subscriptions poll, 27.1% of respondents have cancelled a subscription for political reasons lately, and a further 6.2% are thinking about it. That is a large proportion! Also, 35.4% agreed with "grar at everything".
In ticky-boxes, hard copy media came second to hugs, 39.6% to 68.8%. Lemurs got 31.2%. Thank you for your votes!!
Reading
Still reading Murder Must Advertise by Dorothy L. Sayers (an engaging shaggy dog story, so far). Nothing really in audio.
Kdramas
A few episodes into Knight Flower and enjoying it very much. The male lead is whatever, but the female lead is 100% delightful.
We finished Typhoon Family. Unfortunately it felt like it got shaggier and more shambolic as it went along, so that was a little unsatisfying. The least good Junho drama of the four I've seen.
Pru and I are making our way through Family by Choice, ahhh I love this show!!
Other TV
It feels like we're watching a ton of currently airing things, but now we've finished Typhoon Family, it's really just Down Cemetery Road (excellent) and Pluribus, which is a metaphor for half a dozen different things (Covid, grief, AI, et al).
We also still have Prehistoric Planet on the go, and last night we watched the first two episodes of the new season of Stranger Things, though I ended up colouring in and just looking up from time to time. Not super in the mood for watching people in peril. (At some point we'll probably watch the whole show right through, so I can always catch up properly then.)
Audio entertainment
Letters from an American, Cross Party Lines, some 99% Invisible. And a bunch of episodes of Shell Game, in season 1 of which, the podcaster makes some AI agents with his voice and deploys them at various people (including at his partner and friends). I thought this might be interesting because, while I've listened to a bunch of stuff about how AI is personally, politically and existentially terrible for our selves, societies and planet, I hadn't heard much about the experience of using it. I expected Shell Game to document the fact that it's just kind of crap. But although an "AI agent" is just a voice simulator reading ChatGPT outputs full of made-up nonsense, the podcaster seems weirdly invested in seeing them as mini-mes. Ot1h, using it to engage with scammers and spammers? Sure, why not? Otoh, sending his AI agent to AI therapy?? And then real therapy with a human therapist?? Very strange choices. I kind of want to shake him and remind him that there is NOTHING IN THERE!! (Maybe he reaches that conclusion in the final episode? I'm not there yet.) In season 2, he creates a start-up that is staffed entirely by himself and a bunch of AI agents. I'm not sure this is for me.
Guardian/Fandom
( Rambling about Guardian. )
Writing/making things
Working on my Yuletide fic. It's slow going, but I'm enjoying it. Need to think of something for the new
Link dump
ChatGPT May Be Eroding Critical Thinking Skills, According to a New MIT Study (Time Magazine, Jun 24, 2025) | New Zealand chant (Reddit). :D :D :D
Good things
The boy, the cat, the house. The public health system (what's left of it). Online and offline friends. All the media, everywhere, all at once. Fandom, Guardian, Yuletide, squee. Starting and finishing this post all in one day.
How vivid is your mind's eye?
IMAX
1 (20.0%)
pretty vivid
2 (40.0%)
I can visualise if I work at it
0 (0.0%)
it's a bit patchy / vague
1 (20.0%)
no mind's eye (isn't that just a metaphor?)
1 (20.0%)
other
0 (0.0%)
ticky-box full of detective fiction
2 (40.0%)
ticky-box full of paper drifts all over my desk
3 (60.0%)
ticky-box of being able to easily name most of the characters from Winnie-the-Pooh
3 (60.0%)
ticky-box full of nutmeg, cinnamon, ginger and cloves
4 (80.0%)
ticky-box full of hugs
2 (40.0%)
Happy Holidays!
Dec. 2nd, 2025 07:06 pmMy wishes:
1) a cat toy for an 8 year old finicky cat who hates balls, springs, wands, and bird toys that chirp and "fly"
2) an extra long pink fitted sheet with deep pockets
3) large statement earrings or Christmas earrings
4) cards for Christmas or my Birthday (12/21)
5) some love for my fics at https://archiveofourown.org/users/Disney_Dark if you like any
6) anything Disney Princess, tangible or not
7) meal ideas for a fruitarian diet (not overly high in calories, fat, or extreme sugar)
8) Disney songs played on a piano or other instrument that I can use in Youtube videos (with credit)
9) any from my Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3BQYW1LIXKIK8
Poem: "User Interfaces"
Dec. 2nd, 2025 05:59 pm( Read more... )
GenPrompt Bingo Card Round 29
Dec. 2nd, 2025 06:00 pm| Housewife / Househusband | Tragedy | Freestyle crossover | Vignette | Women Being Awesome |
| Five Things | Contemporary AU | A Moment of Understanding / Clarity | A Strange Friend | First person narration |
| Steampunk AU | Horror | Wild Card | Second person narration | Drama |
| Crossover: TV shows and movies | There is No Escape | A Test of Worthiness | Reality is Illusion | Taxes |
| High School / College AU | Humour | Teenagers | A Blessing is Bestowed | Furnishing the Home |
Rare Femslash Exchange Nominations are Open!
Dec. 2nd, 2025 03:36 pmNomination guidelines are here.
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Nominations: December 1-10th (closes at 10PM PST) [ Countdown to nominations closing ] | [ In your timezone ]
Sign-Ups Open: December 13th
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Assignments Out: approximately December 30th
Assignments Due: February 6th, 10PM PST
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[Bingo 2025] Row
Dec. 2nd, 2025 06:01 pmAuthor:
Fandom: Hazbin Hotel
Characters/Pairings: Husk, Arackniss and Rosie
Rating: teen
Warnings: gambling with souls
Artist: Motorhead
Prompt: a fast song
Song: Ace of Spades
Title: Master of Puppets
Author:
Fandom: Hazbin Hotel
Characters/Pairings: Husk/Angel, Charlie/Vaggie
Rating: teen
Warnings: mind control, betrayal, physical assault, drug use
Artist: Metallic
Prompt: song with multiple singers
Song: Master of Puppets
FREE SPACE
Title: Never Gonna Give You Up
Author:
Fandom: Hazbin Hotel
Characters/Pairings: Husk/Angel, Charlie/Vaggie
Rating: teen
Warnings: depression, alcoholism, feelings of betrayal and rage
Artist: Rick Astley
Prompt: a meme song
Song: Never Gonna Give You Up
Title: Rosie Had Everything Planned
Author:
Fandom: Hazbin Hotel
Characters/Pairings: Rosie, Alastor
Rating: teen
Warnings: cannibalism, violence
Artist: Supertramp
Prompt: Song with a name in the title
Song: Rosie had everything planned
Find my card here.
My fandom tree is live!
Dec. 3rd, 2025 11:39 am- Guardian (TV) - many and various pairings and characters
- Guardian (novel) - Shen San/Shen Wei & Da Qing, Shen Wan/Shen Wei & a previous incarnation of Guo Changcheng/the wick
- 김과장 | Good Manager - Kim Sung-ryong/Seo Yul, team (especially Choo Nam-ho and Yoon Ha-kyung)
- 당신이 잠든 사이에 | While You Were Sleeping - Han Woo Tak/Jung Jae Chan/Nam Hong Joo
- 내 손끝에 너의 온도가 닿을 때 | The Time of Fever - Go Hotae/Kim Donghee
- 기름진 멜로 | Wok of Love - Dan Sae-woo/Doo Chil-seong/Seo Poong
- 왕은 사랑한다 | The King in Love - Eun San/Wang Rin/Wang Won
- Desperately Seeking Susan - any combination of Roberta, Susan, Dez, and Jim
- Bluey (TV) - Bingo (art only, incl. crossovers with Guardian)
(As may be obvious, my romanisation of Korean names is wildly inconsistent. I have hyphenations, no hyphenations, smooshing, u = oo, or eo = u. Idk! I mostly get names from asianwiki.com and AO3, but where relevant, I tend to change the second part of a hyphenated name to lower case, for aesthetics.)
(As may also be obvious, I got rather carried away. Hi! :D)
(As may also also be obvious, my preferred solution to love triangles where they all care about each other is SMOOSHING. :D)
Linguistics
Dec. 2nd, 2025 03:11 pmThis is one of those delightful linguistic deep-dives so beloved of classical philologists. Nelson considers the use of classical Greek ὄλισβος (olisbos) as meaning “dildo” within the context of its other meanings and of other words for dildo and concludes that not only was “dildo” not the primary meaning for the word, but that it also wasn’t the standard/default term for such an instrument. Rather, the modern scholarly assumption that olisbos=dildo derives from the use of the word in Aristophanes and the tendency of the works of Aristophanes to dominate understandings of Greek usage of his time.
Just in case you want some words that modern censors are unlikely to recognize. :D Or you just like ancient sex toys.
Challenge 417: Due South: G
Dec. 2nd, 2025 03:57 pmChapters: 1/1
Fandom: due South
Rating: General Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Characters: Benton Fraser, Turtle (due South)
Summary:
Benton and Ray’s turtle eat apples.
An: Written for the anythingdrabble prompt: Juice( due south )
Gen Prompt Bingo Round 29
Dec. 2nd, 2025 08:38 pm
Its aim is to provide bingo cards of gen-style prompts to be used as inspiration in creating fic, images, meta, fanmixes, vids or any other kind of fannish activities. Although the prompts themselves are "Gen" (i.e., no prompts are specifically about romance or sex) fills may be of any genre, style or rating.
Prompt lists are renewed at the start of December and April. New cards can be claimed then even if a previous card has not been completed.
Round 29 is open
Impending weather | Impending purple | No-longer-impending Advent chocolate
Dec. 2nd, 2025 04:30 pmI've finally gotten weary enough of my natural hair color to buy permanent OTC dye, as opposed to the semi-permanent attempts I've made since it became obvious that covid has settled in for the long haul. ( TL;DR: purple permanent dye has been purchased but not yet applied )
C&Ping and expanding on a bit from Bluesky last night: ( an Advent calendar + supplementary chocolate )
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What even is a GCOP
Dec. 2nd, 2025 07:41 pmI'm pretty sure this is some kind of phishing scam, because I think an email from Esteemed Academic Publishing Conglomerate would have a more professional style about it:
[Nothing in the way of branding heading or footer...]
Hi [Name],
Welcome to the [Name of Publisher] GCOP! To get started, go to https://[name of conglomerate].my.site.com/gcopvforcesite
Username: [part of my email address].netmya
The email is from [name][at][conglomerate's address].
Bizarre.
***
Also bizarre: partner has signed up for a hearing test in conjunction with forthcoming eye-test, and has received this upselling email (does not at present have any kind of hearing-aid) for an exciting new model on which they are offering A Deal:
Key Features:
Advanced Voice AI for natural, personalised sound
Waterproof design for everyday confidence
Built-in Smart Assistant & Telecare AI, providing on-the-go adjustments and support
Language translation & transcription capabilities
Step tracking, fall alerts & balance assessments
Customisable reminders for daily tasks
Hands-free phone calls for complete convenience
I'm sure I have encountered several of those 'key features' in dystopian sf???